Motivational Interviewing and “What Matters to You?” Conversations

This evidence-based tool supports clinicians in identifying and addressing social isolation and loneliness in older adults. It provides a clear, practical framework organized into four steps:


Connect: Build rapport using empathy, active listening, and openness

Assess: Use simple screening tools to understand loneliness and risk

Respond: Tailor supports, referrals, and care planning

Educate: Reinforce the importance of social connection for health


The tool also includes:


  • Conversation starters
  • Screening questions
  • Risk factors to watch for
  • Intervention ideas and community supports


This is a practical resource you can integrate directly into your everyday conversations with patients.